XOXO Meaning: What It Means in a Text (and How to Reply)

Short answer: XOXO means "hugs and kisses". The X stands for a kiss and the O for a hug. It is a warm, affectionate sign-off, but many people use it with friends and family too, so it is not always romantic.

What does XOXO mean?

XOXO is an old way to send love in writing, from letters and cards long before texting. Each letter has a meaning:

• X: a kiss
• O: a hug
• XOXO: hugs and kisses
• x or xx: a kiss or two, very common in British texting and often just friendly

You usually see it at the end of a message: "see you tomorrow, xoxo" or "happy birthday!! xoxo". Many people also know it as the famous sign-off from the TV show Gossip Girl.

What does XOXO mean from a guy?

From a guy, XOXO is less common, so it stands out more. If a guy you are talking to signs off with "xoxo" or "xx", he is probably being affectionate on purpose. With a 😘 it is playful and a bit flirty.

If he is British, though, a little "x" at the end may just be habit. Check if he signs off like that with everyone.

What does XOXO mean from a girl?

From a girl, XOXO is often friendly. Lots of people sign texts to friends, sisters and moms with "xoxo" or "xx". From a crush it can still be a hint, especially if she does not sign off like that with everyone.

Is XOXO a good sign?

It is a warm sign, but check how they use it:

• Flirty: "xoxo 😘" at the end of a goodnight text, from someone you are dating or flirting with.
• Friendly: "xoxo" on every message to everyone. That is their style, not a confession.
• Too much, too soon: daily "xoxo", "ily" and big promises after a few days can be part of love bombing.
• Late night: an "xoxo" at the end of a 2am "u up" chat is about the mood of the moment. Look at the daytime texts too.

To learn how they show care beyond words, the love language test is a fun place to start.

How to reply to XOXO

Flirty:

• "xoxo 😘 sweet dreams"
• "only one x? I want more 😏"

Friendly:

• "xoxo! see you soon"
• "love you, xx"

Busy:

• "xoxo, talk tomorrow!"

Not interested:

• "bye!"
• "see you"

If you like them, matching their sign-off is an easy way to send the same warmth back.

XOXO in your WhatsApp chat

Sign-offs like "xoxo" say more when you see them across months of messages. The Cringe report shows top words, who starts each conversation and average reply times for both people, so you can see if the affection goes both ways or comes mostly from one side.

FAQ

Is XOXO romantic?

It can be, but not always. Friends and family use it a lot. From a crush who does not use it with everyone, it is more likely flirty.

What does XX mean in a text?

XX means two kisses. It is very common in the UK and Australia, even between friends, so it is usually just friendly.

Is XOXO cringe?

Some people find it a bit old-fashioned, but it is still used and many people find it sweet. If you like it, use it.

Which letter is the kiss in XOXO?

X is the kiss and O is the hug.